Your body, your choice, your happiness

To every woman who's ever been told she'll "change her mind,"
You know yourself. You always have. But lately, it feels like everyone else thinks they know you better.Whether or not to have kids is your call. But somehow, it's turned into everyone else's favorite topic.Family dinners that feel more like job interviews. Friends giving you that look. Random people asking when you're "finally" going to have a baby like it's any of their business.Here's the thing. You've actually thought about this. A lot. You didn't just wake up one day and decide. You sat with it. You were honest with yourself. That's a good thing, even when people try to make you feel weird about it. Remember the first time you talked to another woman who felt the same way? And you thought, "Oh thank god, it's not just me"? That's what real support feels like.But right now? You're tired. Tired of explaining yourself. Tired of being called selfish when you're just being real. Tired of having the same conversation over and over with people who aren't actually listening.
You know your life isn't missing something.Here's what we know: You've built something good. A life that actually fits you. Your values. Your passions. Your freedom. That takes guts. Most people never figure out what they actually want. You did. And that calm feeling you get when you picture your future? That's not nothing. That's everything.Women who choose themselves, women who trust their own path like you do, they go on to live really good lives. Full lives. Happy lives. Lives with purpose and love and all the things people said you'd miss out on.Your worth has nothing to do with whether you become a mom.
That's why we started ChildFreePhD. We create videos with relatable text conversations that capture the moments you know too well. The awkward family questions. The pushy coworkers. The friends who don't get it. We put into words what you've been feeling so you know you're not alone.Living childfree means standing by your decision. No apologies. No explanations. It means building a life that's actually yours. Your choice isn't selfish. It's honest.
Find us on YouTube.You're not missing out. You're all in on your own life.
Claire
ChildFreePhd